MEN WILL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO WHEN THEY ARE ADDICTED TO PORNOGRAPHY. --EVEN IF IT MEANS STEPPING OUT ON THIER WIVES...
This is the greatest lesson I wish I didn't have to learn firsthand, but I did, so hopefully, you can benefit.
If your husband has a pornography addiction and you know about it or only suspect it may be going on, you must know that ADDICTIONS ONLY GET WORSE!!!
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Mary,
I am so sorry that you forever have these images burned into your brain. You have truly been traumatized by your husband's addiction and his resulting acting out behaviors. I wish to give you just a word of caution. . .I get the impression that you are driven to talk about this very vivid imagery, which is a very common experience. There tends to be a belief that if you keep talking about it, purging it, eventually it will be gone. However, the opposite is actually true; the more you talk about it the more your brain is reinforced to think about it. It is just as detrimental for you to replay these images in your mind as it is for your husband to do so. Please employ the three second rule with the myriad of images you have in your mind. . .I am worried that you are just re-traumatizing yourself.
Thanks Sandi,
I deleted the graphic imaging. Maybe, if anything, whoever read the parts I deleted or read any of the blog will now know that women who have had unfaithful husbands have been traumatized. I feel like I have come a long, long way, yet I am still traumatized. How can I not be? I feel betrayed and angry. I am trying my best to cope. I'm sure sometimes I cope in unhealthy ways. I am trying to learn how to cope in healthy ways through counseling. I have felt peace. I know I am on the right road, but that doesn't mean I don't still feel feelings of hurt and pain, especially when Max has done yet another thing to hurt me presently. I don't quite remember, but I'm sure I was triggered by something Max did or didn't do that caused me to let others know about strip clubs.
I should have thought that not only women read this blog. The last thing I want is for other sex addicts to get triggered or to act out.
What do Christie Brinkley, Sara Evans and Tea Leoni all have in common? All of them are high profile celebrities. All of them have international notoriety for their physical beauty.
And all of them are / have been married to alleged porn addicts.
http://www.covenanteyes.com/blog/2008/09/22/husbands-who-watch-porn-part-4-wives-are-asking-whats-wrong-with-me/
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